Cancer, my dads battle with Crohns Disease

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By PhoenixV



My father served in Korea as a marine, then returned to the USA and changed branches to the United States Air Force as one of the first technicians for flight simulators.My father and mother married in Las Vegas, around the time when the Tropicana Resort & Casino Las Vegas was opening.

I think it was about that time he started becoming sick a lot, but his Crohns Disease was undiagnosed. After 15 years in the USAF our family moved to the Midwest. He sold life insurance or car insurance or gave auto insurance quotes or just insurance quotes, I can't remember.I think he applied for college loans through the military to continue his education. But would become sick and would have to go the hospital. In the early 70's they did many exploratory surgery's but I don't think the doctors knew what they were dealing with.

He would come home under a lot of sedation and continue to work hard . He was building our house,juggling a mortgage for it and trying to buy a convenience store all while sick but wishing to provide for his family. He was a very proud man and even though sick beyond belief, things like charity or government aid or today's financial tricks of, refinancing mortgage's or maxing out credit cards and "pay for it all later" just weren't an option.He was old school. A life, a home and family in a place with the cheapest gas and electricity and hardest work,meanwhile constantly sick and in the hospital. There was constant exploratory surgery from Veterans Hospital slowly whittling his insides away and throwing up their hands.
The medical bills started mounting up and the family and relatives around that time began to implode, some relatives moved to Arizona, divorced or moved apart .My parents also divorced.
But dad got lucky. He eventually found a doctor that suspected Crohns Disease. He removed most of his intestines (ileostomy) The procedure was rare at the time and life expectancy was very low 1-5 years I believe . He lived 30 .


Crohn's disease is known to be an autoimmune disease and occurs when  the body's immune system attacks the gastrointestinal tract. There are suggestions that there are genetic factors associated with Crohn's disease, putting  relatives and offspring at high risk. People that smoke tobacco are three times more likely to develop Crohn's disease, than people who do not smoke.  Crohn's disease affects around half a million  people in North America. Crohn's disease sometimes appears in the teens and twenties, and also in the fifties to seventies, although it  can occur at any age.

There is no known cure for Crohn's disease at this time.

Burrill Bernard Crohn, is who the disease was named after . Crohn, along with two colleagues,observed patients with inflammation of the terminal ileum, the area most commonly affected by the illness.

New England Journal of Medicine

Crohn's disease is one of two idiopathic inflammatory boweldiseases that affect approximately 1 million people in NorthAmerica. Despite important advances in diagnosis and treatmentin recent years, the underlying cause of the disease remainsunclear. As a result, the available therapies are not curativeand may pose a substantial risk of side effects. A current theoryregarding the pathogenesis of Crohn's disease suggests thatthere is an overly aggressive immune response against commensalbacteria in a genetically predisposed person. In this context,the activation of lymphocytes and the overexpression of inflammatorycytokines represent a common effector mechanism leading ...

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annaw Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

Very interesting and informative post. Thank you for sharing the intimate details of your life and the ones you love.Your father was a brave man.

sokolenko 2 years ago

realy sorry about your dad

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PhoenixV Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks Annaw

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PhoenixV Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks sokolenko

A. Jill 2 years ago

It seems you have a lot of love and admiration for your father. And, it seems he deserved it, being a man of values, courage and much fortitude. I'm sure he would be proud of his son.

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fastfreta Level 5 Commenter 2 years ago

I was so moved by the story of your father. My son at 24 had his colon removed, due to ulcerative colitis, at 29 he's doing fine. Good to know that your father lived with his condition for 30 years. I will pass this info on to my son.

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RK Sangha 2 years ago

Thanks PhenixV ! for autobiographical good hub.

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pinkdaisy 2 years ago

My Uncle went through the same thing. Great hub!

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PhoenixV Hub Author 23 months ago

Thanks Pinkdaisy

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PhoenixV Hub Author 23 months ago

Thanks RK

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PhoenixV Hub Author 23 months ago

I hope it helps Fastfreta

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Instgtr 23 months ago

My wife has had Crohn's for about 10 years. It's pretty much backed off for now, but came close to killing her when they first diagnosed the problem (she was way underweight and everyone thought she "just" had an eating disorder)

She still has problems with it but it's about 15% of what it was when she first found out (this was back before we got together and she was so bad off that a friend of hers took her to the hospital because she was so weak she could barely move)

For a while afterwards she was severely depressed and had pretty much lost the will to live. It was about then that we got together and she's doing really good now, so state of mind does seem to have a lot to do with Crohn's - there is hope for the disease...

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PhoenixV Hub Author 23 months ago

Its true Mr Instgtr , crohns comes with an obvious social stigma . I cant even imagine a woman having it , its so cruel . After my dad got better he would sometimes be asked to talk to other crohns survivors in an effort get them to live again get their lives back.

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oceansnsunsets Level 7 Commenter 23 months ago

Thanks for sharing about your Dad's battle with Crohn's disease. I learned a lot, and he sounds like a strong man. I hope they find out more and more so they can help people struggling with it.

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PhoenixV Hub Author 23 months ago

Thanks Ocean

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Loveslove 19 months ago

Hello...We have a very close friend who has Crohns ..he first thought he had Cancer but after many months was diagnosed with Crohns...he is in his late 50's and doing ok but has regular flare ups when he has to go back on steroids.My daughter also has a friend who is 28 with Crohns she is also doing well after an op ,so as you say it can affect any age group,

My dad died with bowel cancer 31 years ago..I sympathise with you,losing someone close and that you love so much is hard ....Thank you for sharing your dads story X

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PhoenixV Hub Author 19 months ago

Thanks Love

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